Dr. Michael Nuccitelli is a New York State licensed psychologist and is a clinical consultant for Herberex. Dr.Nuccitelli offers to customers of our products free confidential phone and email consultations related to psychological issues such as erectile dysfunction, relationship issues, anxiety, depression, psychiatric illness, stress, and various other psychological conditions that may impact a person’s lifestyle and/or quality of life. Dr. Nuccitelli’s phone/email consultations and advice are not intended to replace medical/psychological interventions when necessary. If you would like to contact Dr. Nuccitelli, feel free to email him at drnucc@optonline.net Disclaimer: Due to the large volume of questions Dr. Nuccitelli has received for email consultations, Dr. Nuccitelli will only exhange advice and educational information with customers who have recently purchased Herberex. Although he would like to respond to all who write in, Dr. Nuccitelli only has time to respond to people who seek advice/information that are customers of Herberex. If you are a consumer of Herberex or trying Herberex for the first time, please first let him know when you purchased Herberex and he will promptly return answers to your questions.
Dr. Nucc's 10 Tips to Female Arousal 1) Dress well, maintain your hygiene and stay fit. What you wear around the house and in bed will always be noticed by a woman. Don’t think a T-shirt and boxers will get her aroused. Dressing well in your day to day life sends her the message you care about the way you look. Maintaining proper hygiene is paramount. Not only should you regularly bath and brush your teeth, be sure to be clean with fresh breath when you plan to have a night of sexual fun.
2) Women’s sex talk can be very different to what many men like. Although there are some women who like direct sex talk such as “ I want to be inside you now”, most women like indirect sex talk such as “I think your beautiful” or “I want to make love to you”. Women tend to prefer subtle ways of letting her know you want to be sexual with her.
3) Don’t forget the rest of her body. To get a woman aroused, always first touch, caress, kiss, and/or lick parts of her body other than her “sex parts”. Ask your woman what parts of her body she finds sensitive and start there. The longer you go without touching her sexual areas will always work to your advantage.
4) The Kiss is the first step to getting a woman aroused when foreplay is about to begin. Start to kiss her slowly and begin your kisses first on parts of her body like her neck, forehead, and cheeks. Don’t start off deeply French kissing her unless your darn sure she is ready for deep kissing. Light kissing along with deep eye gazing is always a good first step.
5) A way to a woman’s heart is through her stomach. Although this usually is said for men, being a good cook and preparing her meals she will enjoy can often times get her aroused for later in the night. Serve her a terrific meal. Whether its breakfast in bed or a late night snack, she’ll always be impressed with presenting her food.
6) Direct vs. Indirect sexual contact can arouse a woman more than you would believe. Many men immediately go to a women’s clitoris or move to penetration. Indirect clitoral contact around her pubic bone, inner thighs, and outer vaginal lips will always get her aroused for deeper sexual foreplay.
7) Self Confidence arouses women. Bragging, cockiness, and arrogance never turns a woman on. Instead, self confidence with a woman regarding female arousal is knowing she is much more than a sexual object and regularly communicating how important she is in your life. If you do this on a regular basis, you will feel more confident about getting physical.
8) Inject humor in your sexual foreplay. Women love a man who can be silly and comedic before and during foreplay. This is not to say you should conduct a stand up comedy routine, but feeling comfortable to be jovial sends her the message you enjoy her company.
9) Set an atmosphere. Women truly enjoy sights, sounds, and smells. Simply dimming the lights, putting on romantic music, and/or lighting aromatic candles can sexually stimulate her senses.
10) Listen, Listen, Listen. Most erotic to a woman is how well a man listens to her. Since women are social creatures, showing her you are a good listener will always arouse her senses and send her the message you want more than just her body.
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